Sex &
Intimacy
Re:Kindle
Sexless Marriage ? The Re:Kindle Program Transforms Sexless Marriages Into Intimate, Connected Partnerships In 12 weeks.
A program specially designed for Couples Who Have Stopped Having Sex
Reignite Desire and Connection in 12 Weeks
The program helps couples in long-term relationships to rebuild intimacy and sexual connection especially relevant in midlife when desire, stress, and life changes often disrupt intimacy.
Even if sex has been missing for years,
the program helps establish sexual connection in a clear, structured way.
Personal. Practical. Results-focused.
Is This Where You Are Now?
Common Mid-Life Relationship Scenarios
​​​
-
You don't hate each other
-
You're not in crisis
-
You share a house, responsibility, history
-
But you don't share desire
-
Haven't had satisfying sex in months (or years)
-
Feel stuck in a push -pull pattern
-
Avoid talking about intimacy
​
You're not alone. Millions of couples struggle with sexual connection and have arguments about sex .
​
These are real questions real people search for in Google.
"Why doesnt' my wife want sex?"
"Sexless marriage- what to do"
"How to bring passion back into marriage"
"How to rebuild intimacy in marriage"
​
The Good News - If sex has quietly faded in mid-life, my Re:Kindle program is designed for you. Intimacy and sexual connection can be rebuilt, even after years of frustration. Read more about sexless marriages here.​​​
​​​​
​My tried and tested Re:Kindle program gives you a clear framework to bring sex back into the marriage and build intimacy - emotionally, physically, sexually.
​
​
​
​
​
​
​​
This Is Where You Could Be ​
​
12 Weeks to Re:Kindle Desire, Rebuild Connection and Bring Passion Back
This is a tried & tested, results driven, step-by-step program for men, women, & couples experiencing sexual disconnection especially those in long term relatiohsips. It’s designed to:
​
-
Restore emotional and sexual connection
-
Stop arguments and negative cycles
-
Rekindle sexual desire
Why this Program works
What you are buying:
​
-
Structured courses for couples struggling in a sexless marriage
-
A guided repair process to build trust, attraction and desire step by step
-
Real-world strategies proven to improve intimacy and sexual intimacy
-
Tailored package - every couple has its own unique dynamic.
-
Additional support and contact as required. ​
-
I work behind the scenes to tailor the structure to your situation.
-
Limited client numbers to ensure I can truly focus on your goals.
​
What you are not buying:
​
A "one size fits all', self directed online course which works great as an introduction
but can't offer the deep work needed to achieve lasting change.
​
A "clone" of other programs which claim to be effective but don't offer the personalised care and attention the Re:Kindle Program offers.
​
A high-priced Program for a coach who turns up ill-prepared and burnt out.
​​​
​
Moving from Frustration → Comfort → Connection
Who is the Re:Kindle Program for?​​
The One Reading This. The One Who Isn't.
The Hopeful. The Hesitant.
The Frustrated. The Rejected.
​
And for everyone else wanting renewed sexual energy in the marriage.​​​​​
The Result
​
By the end of this program couples typically experience:
​
​
-
Reduced tension around sex
-
Clearer communication about sexual needs
-
Increased physical affection
-
Renewed sexual connection
-
Greater emotional closeness
-
A realistic and sustainable sex life
​
It takes commitment from both of you but the results will be rewarding.
Hi, I’m SarahLou
​I specialise in couples in long term relationships who are no longer sexual intimate. My role is to restore sex and connection back into your life.
I cover all areas that affect couples sexual connection:
-
Menopause & Performance Anxiety
-
Antidepressant/medication and sexual impact
-
Sexless or low intimacy relationships
-
Ageing
-
Mens performance anxiety
-
Relationship fatigue
-
Infidelity
​
I designed the Re:Kindle Program because I saw at first hand the
need for a structured program to work with couples in long term relationships who are in sexual limbo.
​
Who I Am & My Approach
​I am a
-
Certified Couples Coach and Mentor
-
Member of the International Association of Therapists (IOATH)
-
Certified in Sex Therapy by the Buehler Institute,
-
Certified Dating Coach
-
Trained in Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT)
-
Yoga Coach specialising in Trauma ,Depression & Anxiety.​
​​
In my previous life, I was a
-
Divorce & Matrimonial Lawyer
-
Family Law Mediator
-
Foster Carer
​
I have a breadth of experience born from working around the edges and seeing, at first hand, the damage and fall out a failing marriage causes. I chose to specialise in sex and intimacy for long term relationships / marriages because I know this program can save your marriage. The investment cost to you for the Program is much cheaper than the cost of a divorce!
What My Clients Say ...
Intimacy Rekindled
"As a busy professional, I thought our marriage was past the point of intimacy. The program’s structured sessions led us back to sexual fun,” Mark 48
Peace & Harmony
“We went from arguing about sex nearly every week to intimacy twice a week in three months. Great program, great structure."
Ahmed & Assil
Passion Resumed
“We hadn’t had sex in 6 months, now it’s almost every week. We are more content now than ever."
Anon Couple
Other Offerings - Individual Sex and Intimacy Sessions
Women, Libido & Sex & Intimacy Coaching​​
​
Intimacy begins with knowing and loving yourself. Lets start there.
​
Women in the 40s begin to experience changes emotionally, sexually and physically. Weight gain, emotional dysregulation, tiredness, foggy thinking .... The Menopause can create low desire, arousal challenges, orgasm difficulties, or painful sex. It’s normal to grieve the body you once had, but sexual intimacy can still be very much on the table. ​Individual sessions can help you reclaim you.
​​​
​
​
Individual Sex & Intimacy Coaching Sessions
If you prefer to begin individually or want clarity before committing to the full program or want support around a specific concern, individual sessions are available as a couple or individually. Suitable for :
-
Exploring desire differences before involving your partner
-
Gaining clarity about your own sexual concerns
-
Preparing for couples work
​​
"I thought my sex life was over once I hit menopause, boy was I wrong. Thanks SarahLou our sex life is now better than it is has ever been. Huge, huge thanks."
​Sonya 50
​
Men, Libido & Sex & Intimacy Coaching
​
​For men reclaiming confidence & satisfaction in intimacy
​​
​Men dont just want more sex, they want to be desired too. And like women they also grieve the body they once had - their masculine self. Its a hard blow to lose this prowess. Lower testosterone, ED and other issues affect performance. Practical guidance, exercises, and honest support is available.
​
"I was nervous about meeting SarahLou, but she made me feel at ease & added a lightness helping me relax. Thank you for giving me the confidence & strategies I needed.​
Gen 56
Sex and Intimacy Coaching can also help you understand your identity, explore and explain hidden desires, and navigate the wild world of dating.
.jpg)
Explore New Desires & Pleasures​
​
Unsure why your turn-ons feel different from others? Feeling unfulfilled or curious about your erotic self?
​
Sex & Intimacy coaching gives you strategies to explore your desires and fantasies safely and consensually
​​​
Read More ​
​
"Self-censorship is where desire goes to hide"
Successful Dating, Sex and Intimacy
​
Date and Intimacy Coaching - learn what you really want, and how and where get it. The Dating Game explained. I can help steer you through shark infested waters and get you to solid ground.
​​​
COMING SOON
​
DEEP INTIMACY & EROTIC DESIRE PROGRAM
FOR COUPLES IN LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS
​
A fully supported, specialised program for the curious who want to understand and enjoy sex more and have more sex
​