Re:Kindle
The Re:Kindle Program: Transforms Sexless Marriages into Intimate, Connected Partnerships in 12 weeks.
The Program focuses on helping couples who feel distant, frustrated, or disconnected in their intimate relationship to find a way back to each other It is not offering tips or surface-level advice, it offers long-lasting change.
Sex Fades in Mid-Life
Many couples feel stuck in a marriage lacking intimacy.
Sex and connection have faded over time.
You may feel distant or disconnected from your spouse.
But sex usually doesn’t disappear overnight. The reasons sexual frequency fades are numerous. My Sexless Marriage page helps identify the many reasons that sex fades in mid-life.
But please be reassured and know that these problems are common and fixable even if you have tried to talk to each other and it has seemingly made the situation worse. The Re:Kindle Program has been designed exactly for your situation. Its tried and tested and I know it works.
Read Below for More Information
The Re:Kindle Program
This program helps couples who feel stuck in a sexless or low-desire relationship. It is based on the main principles of Understanding, Repairing & Maintaining Connection in all its forms, a logical approach to rebuilding a relationship gone awry.
It provides a clear structure to understand what has changed and why sex has faded. It may seem obvious why the sex has dropped off, there are often other factors which haven't yet been voiced.
You learn simple ways to reduce pressure, talk about sex more openly, and rebuild attraction.
Step by step, couples reconnect physically and emotionally at a pace that feels natural.
The goal is to bring sex and intimacy back into the relationship in a realistic, lasting way.
It requires active participation - homework exercises and self reflection are built into the course highlighting the need to be active in the relationship in order to prevent relationship fatigue.
What You Are Buying
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A time- tested structured, guided process designed to help couples
move from disconnection to reconnection.
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Step-by-step framework for rebuilding intimacy
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Practical tools to improve communication and connection
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Real-world strategies to restore closeness
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Tailored approach based on your relationship dynamic
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Ongoing support throughout the process
What you are NOT Buying
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A generic self-directed course
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A one-size-fits-all relationship template
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A high-volume, burnt out coach
Who This Is Not For
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Couples in active betrayal or affair crisis
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Couples where one partner refuses to engage
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Couples seeking purely clinical sex therapy techniques
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Couples already emotionally disengaged beyond repair
Commitment Matters
Couples work is challenging. It asks both partners to look at themselves — not just each other.
This programme is designed for couples who are ready to:
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Take responsibility for their part
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Stay in the process when conversations feel uncomfortable
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Complete exercises between sessions
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Commit to the full structure
If one partner is unwilling to engage, this may not be the right time.
What the 12 Structured Sessions look like:
Session 1 – What Happened to Our Sex Life How your relationship and sex life changed and what is getting in the way now. Session 2 – Stop the Blaming Stop the cycle where one partner pushes for sex and the other pulls away. Session 3 – Getting Close Again Bringing back warmth, friendship, and emotional closeness. Session 4 – What Helps You Feel Desire What helps You feel turned on and what shuts desire down. Session 5 – Taking the Pressure Off Sex Intimacy can feel relaxed again. Session 6 – Bringing Attraction Back Ways to bring back attraction and feeling desired. Session 7 – Talking About Sex Without Arguing Talk about sex, needs, and worries in a calm way. Session 8 – Enjoying Intimacy Again Bring back fun, touch, and closeness. Session 9 – Feeling More Confident Sexually Worries, body confidence, and feeling more comfortable with intimacy. Session 10 – Creating Your Shared Desire Map Clear plan that shows what helps both of you feel desire. Session 11 – Making Sex Part of Life Again Natural rhythm of intimacy that works for both of you. Session 12 – Keeping the Changes Going Simple plan to keep connection, passion, and intimacy strong. This is guided and practical . Not theory. Not endless talking.
Why Choose a Programme Over Individual Sessions?
Many couples try one-off sessions when intimacy becomes difficult. While helpful, they are often just a starting point.
Because disconnection happens over time, rebuilding connection also takes time.
My programme provides a clear, structured process to help you understand the root causes, see where you are as a couple, and take practical steps to rebuild connection.
It’s a commitment of time and investment, but often far less costly than staying stuck.
What Does Real Talking Look Like?
You can both have fully supported conversations enabling you to talk honestly and openly, maybe for the first time in years in a neutral space where you are listened to and heard. This is where the journey starts...
The Result
By the end of this programme couples typically experience:
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Reduced tension around sex
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Clearer communication
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Increased physical affection
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Renewed sexual connection
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Greater emotional closeness
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A realistic and sustainable sex
We are not aiming for teenage lust but adult desire - rebuilt properly.
Read the real testimonials, feel reassured and book a free Discovery Call to talk to me.
These couples below were in the same place as you; nervous, unsure and unhappy. Now they are thriving!
Real Client Testimonials
Still On The Fence?
Back on Track
"As a busy professional, I thought our marriage was past the point of intimacy. The program’s structured sessions led us back to sexual fun" Mark 48
Peace & Harmony
“We went from arguing about sex nearly every week to intimacy twice a week in three months. Great program, great structure."
George & Anita
Passion Resumed
“We hadn’t had sex in 6 months, now it’s almost every week. We are more content now than ever."
Anon Couple
Life After Midway
"After the menopause sex was almost non-existent, with SarahLou's guidance we could navigate the physical aspects. Sex now features in our relationship once more" Sheena and Seb
Priorities Altered
"In a loving but sexless marriage for over 7 years, I hadn't realised how my job impacted our sexual life. I have learnt to prioritise. Connection and sex is forefront now " Dougal & Martine
Good to Talk
"We were drifting apart and frustrated in a sexless marriage. After talking about what we really want and feel, our relationship has become physical again " Anon Couple
* The Discovery Call is no commitment, no pressure, just an opportunity for you make initial steps to improving your sex and emotional life.
Its a space to explore what’s happening and what may help you move forward. Getting clarity early can make change feel more possible and less overwhelming.
Investment
Private 12-Session Couples Program $3500 Payment plans available.
Please Note: I only take a limited number of couples on the Program. This is to ensure you get the best attention from me and the best outcome for you.
A sexless marriage does not fix itself. It becomes increasingly difficult to resolve.
In the famous words of Mr. Phil Collins......
"The hurt doesn't show but the pain still grows .
It's no stranger to you and me"
